Mamma Bear

One year ago today...

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Happy Birthday Little one!
I believe the love for his step father will grow, and his guilt will fade. It is still so fresh for you all. Wow, your year has been SO busy, with no signs of slowing down! So much Joy in such a short time
The oldest did tell us that he had decided to call the old man "Dad" so that his little brother would not be confused by hearing him called Shane all the time... but he's only done so a couple of times.

That will also take time... I think he will feel a bit guilty about it for a while yet. He is being more affectionate towards my husband these days though... so I guess it is progressing.

I really wish that it did not have to be this way, it is very confusing for my oldest. It is not his fault or mine that his biological father was so useless though. I guess it is partially my fault actually... I did pick him didn't I? *sigh*


Well, he is in a better place now. It will take time, but he will get better, and happier. ;-) It will.

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