William will soon be 6 months old. SIX MONTHS! WOW! I periodically look back at all his newborn pictures and sigh. I remember when his knees and elbows were wrinkly because of extra skin and no chub. His ear lobes were flat the day he was born. Sean and I remarked about how much they resembled Sean's lobes. They very quickly curled and now they are more like mine. His hands and feet looked so huge in comparison to his body. Many said of his long fingers: "you'll play the violin!" Now they're smaller (by comparison) and chubbier. He has knuckle dimples. Love the knuckle dimples! He hasn't lost his serious face. One of the nurses in the hospital told him that he was too young to have the cares of the world on his shoulders when he was only a few hours old. He had deep wrinkles that traversed his whole forehead from temple to temple as he surveyed the cold, light world into which he had been born. Now he surveys his world with a scowl that can't hold up against mommy's funny faces. It's not hard to get this child laugh. Lately he is highly amused by my lip-smacking. This morning we laid together on his bedroom floor smacking our lips at each other. Cheap entertainment, and yet, so very priceless. His neck is his ticklish spot, I only have to lightly tap it with my fingers - like I'm typing and he dissolves into hearty, guttural giggles. His changing table is still his favorite spot. If he's crabby, all I have to do is to take him up to change his diaper. He smiles and the arms and legs start flapping - much like a baby penguin. I'm rather worried that he might crack his heals as he lays on the floor and kicks his legs. We have hardwood floors and not much padding under the few area rugs. He lays looking at the ceiling and kicks-kicks-kicks. He never seems bothered too much though.
Will is also sitting up now. I won't dare leave him sitting up and walk away because he's still rather wobbly and top heavy. (Sean says "rather?" It is nice now to be able to sit on the floor with him sitting up and read a book together. It frees up my hands to hold things when I don't have to hold him too.
All the developmental charts list "regarding of
the hand" as one of the developmental events. I never did see him
regard his own hand, as in looking at it. We have noticed him regarding
his boyhood with his hands quite a bit. Whenever he is naked his hands
go exploring. I don't know if this is a boy thing or a baby thing. It
becomes tricky to change a messy diaper and get him clean while keeping
his hands away. I wonder if he gets itchy because in the bath he
doesn't splash, he just scratches his tummy and groin area to the point
where he gets very red. Last night I tried, with partial success, to
distract those busy hands with a rubber duck. Maybe I make his diaper
too tight so his waist area gets itchy? I don't know. But Sean always
reassures him that he's still a boy and his parts will still be there
in the morning.
This week naps are going much more easily and have been more regular. Bed time has been a breeze. Hopefully I'm not jinxing myself. He likes rice cereal, bananas and pears. We tried avocado and much retching and spitting ensued. He's still uncertain about peas. As long as they're warm he isn't bothered too much by them. Despite the promises that once solids start the spitting up will decrease, he still seems to loose entire meals all over me. He doesn't like nursing much these days. I'm hoping that's just a phase.
He's beginning to notice our dog. He looks at Libby and smiles. Last week he got a handful of hair and yanked. The good news is that he still has his hand. The bad news is that she quickly turned around with teeth barred - but when she realized it was him, she only "gummed" his hand. If it had been Sean or me, she might not have let us off so easily.
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I have a friend whose baby will eat avocado if she mixes it with rice cereal, but not by itself. You could try that.
My guy likes to rub at himself during diaper changes. I give him a toy to distract him before I start taking clothes off. Just a small little toy that he can suck or bite. I think it might be something all baby boys do, because I when I was pregnant (and knew it was a boy) a mom telling me about it. I don't know if the area itches or if doing that tickles them and feels funny.
Sorry, by weaned I mean he's not starting solids yet. Must be a British term! I am still nursing him, buthe's not quite ready for solids yet. We're currently recommended in Britain to wait for 6 monthsbut as my 1st son was ready for purees at 4 months, I wasn't sure if we'd wait that long. But son#2 is quite happy on milk alone for the time being. So we're going for BLW "baby led weaning" which means no purees, straight onto finger foods!
Regarding boy bits...they start so young huh?! They don't really grow out of it. As soon as he wakes up, son#1 who is 3 now, has to check it's still there! Like Silver said, giving them a changing toy is a great idea, especially when changing a really dirty nappy!